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Do you think a low IQ excuses you for causing massive damage?
copuis
Brisbane, Queensland
1499 posts
Just heard that the two teens accused of lighting the black Saturday fires have had the charges drop, due to the their low I.Q (under 60)

Now, (and I'm not saying stupid people are dogs, but I'm using this as a supervision example) for that little boy ayan (or something) the owner of the dog was fined for not exercising care, and was responsible for the damages caused,

now most people if they are in a shop, and their toddler breaks something, there is reason to ask the parent for at least the cost of the damaged good (not the sale price)

so I would think that at a minimum that the parents of these children are held to some degree of responsibly, if you have a child (regardless of age) you have a responsibly to keep them safe, and in keeping them safe, it should also be limiting the chances of them causing harm to others

What are other peoples views on this?
02:41pm 07/11/11 Permalink
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fade
Brisbane, Queensland
7046 posts
Extraordinary low IQ (like 60) obviously mitigates moral culpability. 60 is bordering on retardation.

Get any lower and you have to question whether they have the cognitive capacity to appreciate their own actions, viz, be criminally liable.
02:42pm 07/11/11 Permalink
eski
Perth, Western Australia
538 posts
Isn't IQ used to determine liability pretty frequently? Like, you can't get charged if your IQ is below 70?

I learned this from television so I'm almost certain it's correct.
02:43pm 07/11/11 Permalink
copuis
Brisbane, Queensland
1501 posts
but if low IQ is the reason they are excused, doesn't the parent of those kids have some degree of responsibly both on the ground they were young at the time, and of some limited mental capabilities
02:47pm 07/11/11 Permalink
fade
Brisbane, Queensland
7047 posts
but if low IQ is the reason they are excused, doesn't the parent of those kids have some degree of responsibly both on the ground they were young at the time, and of some limited mental capabilities

no.
02:48pm 07/11/11 Permalink
Khel
Melbourne, Victoria
17698 posts
I think copius point is that, shouldn't the people who are responsible for these kids be held in some way accountable? I mean, they're obviously not capable of being responsible for their own actions, so what were they doing unsupervised in the first place? Otherwise we're just saying retarded people have free reign to roam around committing crimes without any sort of recrimination? That doesn't seem right.
02:49pm 07/11/11 Permalink
copuis
Brisbane, Queensland
1503 posts
Fade, how so, if a person is liable for the actions of animals in their care, and the actions of people on their land (trip on the stairs, the homeowner is liable)

why shouldn't you be liable for the actions of your children when they are under the age of 16? (without the IQ being a factor)
02:52pm 07/11/11 Permalink
TicMan
Melbourne, Victoria
7438 posts
If their IQ is that low, the parents need to be held responsible for the childs actions. They can't make judgement calls on their own and clearly need(ed) their guardian to supervise them instead of letting them go light fires that killed hundreds of people and caused bazillions in damages.
02:53pm 07/11/11 Permalink
Hogfather
Cairns, Queensland
11141 posts
If their IQ is that low, the parents need to be held responsible for the childs actions.

Why? Just so we have someone to blame and feel better? Surely we need to establish criminal negligence / malice aforethought on the part of the parents?

Personally I think its one of those unfortunate but inevitable s*** happens scenarios, and people are looking for someone to blame. Sometimes there just isn't anyone.
Otherwise we're just saying retarded people have free reign to roam around committing crimes without any sort of recrimination? That doesn't seem right.

There are lots of people in society who roam around with diminished capacity (be it via age or mental illness) because we just don't have the resources to manage them such that there is perfect, 0% risk to the community.

The world isn't perfect, and there isn't always someone to blame.
why shouldn't you be liable for the actions of your children when they are under the age of 16? (without the IQ being a factor)

Because they are independent humans. You don't have a remote control for your kids.
03:01pm 07/11/11 Permalink
Sosuke
47 posts
It's like Doli Incapax that gives children under 11 a free ride to any kind of criminal offence. Australian legal system is too lenient toward the offenders rather than the victim. It should be other way around. Sentencing is based on weighing Retributionm Rehabilitation and Deterrance, but we all know rehabilitation is a joke. Recidivism in N.S.W. is 66%, once you are in a system, you will be stuck in an endless loop.
Criminal justice system should be reformed to lay out harsher punishment for offenders rather than trying to "rehabilitate" them. Unlike children who are able to distinguish from right and wrong, mentally challenged people cannot, they don't have the mental capacity to distinguish from socially acceptable behaviour to unacceptable behaviour.
03:03pm 07/11/11 Permalink
Mantorok
Brisbane, Queensland
6229 posts
http://www.abc.net.au/news/2011-11-07/prosecutors-drop-charges-over-black-saturday-fire/3638698
"However prosecutors told the Victorian Supreme Court that the Director of Public Prosecutions will no longer pursue the case on the grounds of insufficient evidence and that it was not in the public interest to proceed."

...but we all know rehabilitation is a joke.

It works for Norway
03:05pm 07/11/11 Permalink
Raven
Melbourne, Victoria
6109 posts
Interesting that the news.com.au article I read earlier made no mention whatsoever of insufficient evidence - they just went for outrage journalism.

They made it nice and clear that the judge had said that the two were even mentally incapable of understanding with and dealing with their legal representation to comprehend the ramifications of any decisions they make during the legal proceedings.
03:08pm 07/11/11 Permalink
TicMan
Melbourne, Victoria
7439 posts
Why? Just so we have someone to blame and feel better?


By making the parents responsible it will send a message to others in similar situations that while your child is a minor and considered to be your responsibility, you should be responsible for them. Take the resulting fire out of the equation and you're left with two minors who have extremely low intelligence playing with matches or whatever they were doing. That can't be safe for the child and inevitably the community.

I'm all for letting children grow up independently and to assert themselves but there also needs to be a limit to how far this can be taking. When they go beyond the limits it's the guardians responsibility to ensure they are taught the difference between right and wrong.
03:10pm 07/11/11 Permalink
copuis
Brisbane, Queensland
1504 posts
good point hoggy, however you also have age as a factor, I agree that low IQ doesn't prevent people from roaming around, and some do quite well in life,

I think i might change the thread title, to "should caregivers/guardian be responsible for the actions of those in their care"

the law has given those in "charge" of looking after things fines in the past, why not now

eg,
your dog gets out, mauls a kid, you wear the charges and are deemed responsible, (and the dog dies)
in fact, that pretty much applies to all animals, horses, cows, lions,

if you park your car, hand brake on, in neutral (or park for an auto), and the car moves (jumps into gear while idling or rolls down a hill) you wear the charges and are deemed responsible,

odd, regarding the ABC news item, it was the ABC i heard it on
03:10pm 07/11/11 Permalink
Hogfather
Cairns, Queensland
11142 posts
You keep a dog in a pen, and on a leash. Do you want low-IQ people to be restrained like that? Seems inhumane.

If not, how can a carer be responsible if they are not legally bound to have the teenager under control / in sight at all times? Assuming they haven't directly contributed (say teaching the retards how to start bushfires) how are they culpable?
03:13pm 07/11/11 Permalink
Raider
Brisbane, Queensland
3728 posts
so if i do something stupid i just gotta pretend to be really dumb and f*** up an iq test given to me and get off? Awesome
03:15pm 07/11/11 Permalink
Hogfather
Cairns, Queensland
11143 posts
so if i do something stupid i just gotta pretend to be really dumb and f*** up an iq test given to me and get off? Awesome

I'm pretty sure that won't work, but thanks for the pointless contribution.
03:15pm 07/11/11 Permalink
hardware
Brisbane, Queensland
9753 posts
jeez, 60 IQ? That's hella low. Oh well, at least he's qualified to do traffic control!
03:16pm 07/11/11 Permalink
Raider
Brisbane, Queensland
3730 posts
Ok here's my contribution to make you happy Hog. If a person cannot think coherently for themselves at that age what are they doing unsupervised out of their home? Their parents or carer is responsible for them and if they aren't supervised they should be reprimanded in some way.

You don't let a dog who has a history of aggressive behaviour wander the streets do you?

Not saying low IQ people are aggressive but they also aren't always in control of their actions and don't always do the correct thing.
03:20pm 07/11/11 Permalink
Khel
Melbourne, Victoria
17700 posts
You keep a dog in a pen, and on a leash. Do you want low-IQ people to be restrained like that? Seems inhumane.


Keeping people in a pen or on a leash is obviously taking the argument to the absurd extreme, but yes they should be kept under supervision and not be allowed to just wander around starting fires. I mean, if they're legally not capable of being responsible for their actions, then surely somebody else has to be responsible for them. You can't just say "Well, you're not capable of making or understanding the consequences of your own decisions, now go out into the world and live your own life".
03:22pm 07/11/11 Permalink
copuis
Brisbane, Queensland
1505 posts
hoggy, is letting your kids play in the back yard or go to the park with friends, cool (I think so)

is letting them wonder off without knowing what they are doing, or were they are safe, or even good parenting? (I dont think so)

I'm not saying we need to restrain them, however people with limited metal capabilities are often "penned" in (for want of a better word), just go to a dementia ward,

hell we pen up children all the time, it is called day care, however instead of looking at it as restraining, look at it as protecting, giving them a known area in which to play, learn have fun that is not only safe in regards to causing damage to others property, but also protecting them

had these kids been picked up by a pedo, not only would it be hard to know were they were picked up from, (massive search area, very little clues to even know where to begin or to ask for help from the public) these were two boys they were both young, and regardless of intelligence shouldn't have been out there
03:23pm 07/11/11 Permalink
deadlyf
Queensland
2185 posts
So you think the parents have to supervise their retarded off-spring 24/7? The only real way to ensure they are supervised like that is to control their movements to such an extent that you are imprisoning them. It's not just retarded kids that do stupid s*** either, even then I wouldn't shift the blame completely from the child to the parent just because the child can't be held accountable.
03:28pm 07/11/11 Permalink
Hogfather
Cairns, Queensland
11144 posts
Please see my response above. Low-IQ people are not dogs. We have no evidence that the parents were told by a mental health care professional that they are a danger to the community. there is no evidence that they were told to keep the children supervised at all times (ie, imprison them).

What if they ran off by themselves, without the approval of the parents?

If they HAVE ignored that sort of advice then there is evidence of possibly criminal negligence. Its possible that they were negligent! But the kids playing in the bush alone is not proof in itself of that.

The "Where were the parents" argument is not black and white. As always, a requirement for evidence of negligence (and the assumption of innocence) applies.

Of course, I'll be wrong if you can show me a law that says that all 60 IQ teenagers (regardless of medical assessment) must be supervised at all times by their parents, and that they are culpable for damages if not. I don't think such a law exists, though.
03:29pm 07/11/11 Permalink
copuis
Brisbane, Queensland
1506 posts
hoggy, please re-read my threads, i'm not comparing low IQ to dogs,

I'm Comparing the responsibly of care givers, and the blame given to those parties

If your 13 year old son (IQ of 130) beats the living out of a granny on school holiday, should the parent take some of the blame

if your dog mauls a granny, you sure as s*** get the blame
03:31pm 07/11/11 Permalink
Khel
Melbourne, Victoria
17702 posts
I would imagine it would be rather obvious that your child requires above-normal levels of supervision, if they have an IQ of 60. I mean, thats going a bit beyond "Hes a normal kid but a little slow", as someone said above, thats basically retardation.
03:32pm 07/11/11 Permalink
Hogfather
Cairns, Queensland
11145 posts
Sure they probably do, but how can we determine criminal negligence and culpability?

Should they have been restrained by a pen or a leash, basically imprisoned? If not, then what if one parent was at work and one was taking a s*** and the 15 year olds just pissed off? Or do both parents need to be home at all times so one parent can keep an eye literally on the retards 24/7 or they are criminally negligent?

What if your elderly parent is a bit demented, wanders off and causes a huge car accident? Are you culpable, because you knew this could happen? Why not? What about the down syndrome adults who live independently but have a chance of f*****g up and causing a house fire? Who is to blame?

S*** happens. There isn't always someone to blame.
hoggy, please re-read my threads, i'm not comparing low IQ to dogs,

...

if your dog mauls a granny, you sure as s*** get the blame

But you are comparing humans to dogs every time. You are expected to imprison your animals, but you are not allowed to do that with teenagers.

Its against the law.
03:36pm 07/11/11 Permalink
copuis
Brisbane, Queensland
1507 posts
hoggy, fyi, I have known of a care facility getting charged for police time, and damages caused by someone in their care wondering off, (he jumped over the fence) and we (SES) had to search for him (he thought he was rambo, and was evading the enemy) so, does that answer your question?
03:39pm 07/11/11 Permalink
Hogfather
Cairns, Queensland
11146 posts
hoggy, fyi, I have known of a care facility getting charged for police time, and damages caused by someone in their care wondering off, (he jumped over the fence) and we (SES) had to search for him (he thought he was rambo, and was evading the enemy) so, does that answer your question?

No it doesn't - in this case qualified health care providers failed in their duty of care and negligence was established by the courts. I've said in my posts that the parents MAY be negligent, but that we don't have enough evidence to assert that.

This is NOT the same as "if a 60 IQ teenager ever does damage then the parents are ALWAYS culpable".
03:40pm 07/11/11 Permalink
copuis
Brisbane, Queensland
1508 posts
But you are comparing humans to dogs every time. You are expected to imprison your animals, but you are not allowed to do that with teenagers

Its against the law.


no, but you can supervise them, and you can ground them, and limit their actions,

ie., your not going to play with that little johnny today, and your not going out into the bushland, I dont care, it is hot, and there is a high fire risk, sit in the aircon and watch your daddy porn (would have saved a few lifes)
03:41pm 07/11/11 Permalink
Khel
Melbourne, Victoria
17703 posts
If the parents work, and can't supervise their children when their children have special needs and are in need of constant supervision, then they should hire a carer who CAN be there full time. Same as if you have an elderly parent living with you who is incapable of looking after themselves and you can't commit the time needed to look after them, then you can hire a nurse/caregiver for them, or put them in a home where they will get the care and supervision they need.

If you don't do these things, and are happy to just let your kids run off and set fires or let your elderly demented relative wander off and stand in the road and get hit by a car, then yes, you should be deemed negligent and you should be to blame.
03:46pm 07/11/11 Permalink
copuis
Brisbane, Queensland
1509 posts
letting kids play is fine

letting kids roam is not

letting kids roam unsupervised into bush land is stupid

letting kids roam unsupervised into bush land, during a time of high fire danger, f*****g stupid

letting kids roam unsupervised into bush land, during a time of high fire danger, when they knowingly have limit understanding, that fine

what your saying that the parents have nil responsibly for their kids actions (people that are by nature their responsibly)
03:47pm 07/11/11 Permalink
Hogfather
Cairns, Queensland
11147 posts
If the parents work, and can't supervise their children when their children have special needs and are in need of constant supervision, then they should hire a carer who CAN be there full time. Same as if you have an elderly parent living with you who is incapable of looking after themselves and you can't commit the time needed to look after them, then you can hire a nurse/caregiver for them, or put them in a home where they will get the care and supervision they need.

You're detached from reality for this. Do you have any idea how few places in facilities are available? How little support there is? Have you had any direct experience in the care arrangements for those with mental issues, or raising children?

A 60-IQ kid wouldn't even rate a respite day, and very few families can afford the sort of care you're talking about. Its not the parent's fault they have a mentally challenged child, but you're happy to lumber them with 100% culpability if it ever, ever goes wrong.

what your saying that the parents have nil responsibly for their kids actions

You've again deliberately misrepresented my position. Stop it.

I've said they MAY be culpable but there is not enough evidence. You're saying that the parents are ALWAYS to blame which is 100% untrue.
03:53pm 07/11/11 Permalink
Khel
Melbourne, Victoria
17704 posts
Its not the parent's fault they have a mentally challenged child, but you're happy to lumber them with 100% culpability if it ever, ever goes wrong.


Not their fault, but still their responsibility. Sure, its a hard situation to be in, but it doesn't absolve them of responsibility. I feel sorry for people who are in that situation, but that doesn't make it ok to turn a blind eye while your kids run off and light fires.
03:56pm 07/11/11 Permalink
Hogfather
Cairns, Queensland
11148 posts
Not their fault, but still their responsibility. Sure, its a hard situation to be in, but it doesn't absolve them of responsibility. I feel sorry for people who are in that situation, but that doesn't make it ok to turn a blind eye while your kids run off and light fires.

But we don't know they did that.

What if Daddy was off preparing the property for the fire season and Mummy had to take a s***, and they ran off to play in the bush? Should she have (probably illegally) locked the teenagers up somewhere before taking a dump? What if they were off shopping somewhere and just plain old RAN AWAY because you can't put kids on leashes!?

We don't know ANYTHING about what happened, but you're quite ready to get out the pitchforks and torches. Fortunately the law doesn't work like that! The parents are not automatically culpable, actual negligence must be first established.
04:00pm 07/11/11 Permalink
fade
Brisbane, Queensland
7050 posts
Hoggy - you'll see I gave up on this thread a while back. I suggest you go play solitaire or something.
04:16pm 07/11/11 Permalink
Hogfather
Cairns, Queensland
11150 posts
Hoggy - you'll see I gave up on this thread a while back. I suggest you go play solitaire or something.

Yeh I have work to do :P
04:20pm 07/11/11 Permalink
Khel
Melbourne, Victoria
17705 posts
Yay for a society where nobody has to take responsibility for their own s***. Like the fat people who blame Mcdonalds for being fat, or all the public liability nonsense going on these days. People need to sack up and take responsibility for the things they're meant to be responsible for. When "Its not my fault my kids started a fire, I was off taking a dump" is a valid defense, something is very wrong.
04:24pm 07/11/11 Permalink
Hogfather
Cairns, Queensland
11151 posts
So if you're a sole parent with low-IQ teenagers and need to s***, what should you do, Khel?

Everybody poops.
04:29pm 07/11/11 Permalink
kappa
Brisbane, Queensland
1669 posts
As hoggy said its not black and white. But 5 minutes with the parents should be enough time to determine if they are negligent . I'll even do it.
04:37pm 07/11/11 Permalink
Sc00bs
Brisbane, Queensland
8134 posts
put the retarded kids in jail/down...

Yeah lets have 2 kids that are 'stupid' running around lighting fires that kill and cause massive damage...

get death needles and insert into arm, they had their turn and they f***ed up
04:37pm 07/11/11 Permalink
Dazhel
Gold Coast, Queensland
4117 posts
04:38pm 07/11/11 Permalink
hardware
Brisbane, Queensland
9754 posts
yeah i'd be careful with that line of thinking if i were you sc00bs
only a very short move of the marker and you're included in that field
04:51pm 07/11/11 Permalink
demon
Brisbane, Queensland
6543 posts
i wouldn't call the damage you guys have made to this forum "massive".
04:52pm 07/11/11 Permalink
TicMan
Melbourne, Victoria
7442 posts
FYI, Hoggy and I talked and we are all OK with our positions.
05:22pm 07/11/11 Permalink
Hogfather
Cairns, Queensland
11152 posts
Salllll good
05:23pm 07/11/11 Permalink
Khel
Melbourne, Victoria
17706 posts
So if you're a sole parent with low-IQ teenagers and need to s***, what should you do, Khel?


I'd imagine if you were raising kids like that, you'd have solutions. Shutting the front and back doors of the house before going to have a s*** would be an obvious first step.
05:36pm 07/11/11 Permalink
spoon
Brisbane, Queensland
398 posts
put the retarded kids in jail/down... Yeah lets have 2 kids that are 'stupid' running around lighting fires that kill and cause massive damage... get death needles and insert into arm, they had their turn and they f***ed up


Wow.



Just FYI
05:38pm 07/11/11 Permalink
Khel
Melbourne, Victoria
17707 posts
I'm going to keep saying retarded, because its more medically accurate.

The terms used to describe this condition are subject to a process called the euphemism treadmill. This means that whatever term is chosen for this condition, it eventually becomes perceived as an insult. The terms mental retardation and mentally retarded were invented in the middle of the 20th century to replace the previous set of terms, which were deemed to have become offensive. By the end of the 20th century, these terms themselves have come to be widely seen as disparaging and politically incorrect and in need of replacement. The term intellectual disability or intellectually challenged is now preferred by most advocates in most English-speaking countries. Clinically, however, mental retardation is a subtype of intellectual disability, which is a broader concept and includes intellectual deficits that are too mild to properly qualify as mental retardation, too specific (as in specific learning disability), or acquired later in life, through acquired brain injuries or neurodegenerative diseases like dementia.
05:42pm 07/11/11 Permalink
TicMan
Melbourne, Victoria
7444 posts
What was the previous term for retards?
05:43pm 07/11/11 Permalink
Hogfather
Cairns, Queensland
11153 posts
I'd imagine if you were raising kids like that, you'd have solutions. Shutting the front and back doors of the house before going to have a s*** would be an obvious first step.

But its so obvious and easy, right? What if they've had inadequate public support to come up with these 'solutions' ... solutions that a lay person can't describe? Given that they have to watch the f*****g kids EVERY F*****NG SECOND of their lives, or be hung in the Khel court of public opinion, they better get it right!

Anyway, are you talking about locking them inside the house (ie, imprisoning them)? Are you sure its legal to imprison 15 year olds, even low-IQ ones? Are there safety issues you haven't considered here?

What about in public / outside? They're a bit stupid but they're still 15 and young and can probably outrun you very easily. Some sort of leash / harness arrangement perhaps? A taser or stun gun to bring them down in an emergency - like if the dangerous little bastards look like they might get away?
05:46pm 07/11/11 Permalink
Khel
Melbourne, Victoria
17708 posts
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mental_retardation#History_of_the_terminology

Cretin, Imbecile, Moron, Idiot and Feeble minded are all up there. Mongolism is in there too, which made me laugh, that probably makes me a bad person.


Are you talking about locking them inside the house (ie, imprisoning them)?


I lock my doors when I'm home anyway, so I don't see it as some horrible "imprisonment" if you lock the front and back doors so your kids can't run away when you're not looking. I don't have all the answers because, thankfully, I don't have mentally retarded children. But I'm sure theres many, many things you can do if you're in that situation short of locking your kids in a pen and walking them around on leashes. Theres a lot of room in between washing your hands of all responsibility and letting your kids do whatever they want, and caging them up and treating them like animals.
05:47pm 07/11/11 Permalink
Hogfather
Cairns, Queensland
11154 posts
Of course there is, Khel is sure of it!

That's why the parents are culpable every single time. No excuses, straight to jail for those motherf*****s, they basically set the fire themselves, right?

We don't even need a trial, they admitted culpability by conceding that they were the parents!
05:52pm 07/11/11 Permalink
Khel
Melbourne, Victoria
17709 posts
Of course they're is, Khel is sure of it!


Its just common sense, its utterly illogical and plain outright stupid to believe the only solutions are taking no responsibility for your kids, or tieing them up with leashes and treating them like dogs. I don't even know why I'm needing to point that out.
05:59pm 07/11/11 Permalink
Hogfather
Cairns, Queensland
11155 posts
So you're saying that because the kids did it, that the parents are guilty of culpable negligence, no matter what?

Its just common sense, its utterly illogical and plain outright stupid to believe the only solutions are taking no responsibility for your kids, or tieing them up with leashes and treating them like dogs. I don't even know why I'm needing to point that out.

So if its so simple, why can't you post the solution? Its obvious right?

How do you have a physically able teenager child outside, under your care, and make 100% sure he can never escape your control? And that's never ever, because in the Khel Court if they get away, you're responsible for their actions.
06:00pm 07/11/11 Permalink
spoon
Brisbane, Queensland
399 posts
Of course Khel you can say whatever you like just beaware some find it offensive .There is a huge movement led by people involved with the special olympics to end the use of the word because they find it offensive.

A campaign led by people with intellectual disabilities and the Special Olympics to eliminate the "R word" has resulted in federal legislation to replace the term mentally retarded with the term intellectual disability in some federal statutes.


06:00pm 07/11/11 Permalink
Khel
Melbourne, Victoria
17710 posts
So you're saying that because the kids did it, that the parents are guilty of culpable negligence, no matter what?


Well, for a start, I never made any blanket claims like that, you're putting words in my mouth. I started off talking about this specific instance, and then broadened a bit into talking about parents of children in general who are incapable of looking after themselves or making or understanding the consequences of their own decisions. I asked questions in my first post about why the children were there unsupervised in the first place? And I said that if people who are caring for children, or old relatives, who need a higher level of special attention, supervision and care fail to deliver on that level of care, then they should be deemed negligent.

Of course Khel you can say whatever you like just beaware some find it offensive


Yeah, thats true, and tbh I try and not use it as much I have in the past, because I have inadvertently offended a couple of people in the past. But in a discussion like this, its not really being used in an offensive way (well, not much).
06:05pm 07/11/11 Permalink
Boxhead
Brisbane, Queensland
12251 posts
You're dealing in what is reasonable.. or what a reasonable person would assume is appropriate to take place in this situation...

Its hard to imagine because we're not all parents.. but kids get out, kids do stupid s***, kids hurt themselves and kids hurt others.. Parenting is more about preparing them for that s*** and hoping they'll make the right decisions then anything else...

Also if they're deemed negligent, is that in a parenting sense? That they could have forseen the actions of their children and should have put steps in place to ensure that those actions that caused harm couldn't have occurred?? Because that seems a bit much to me.
06:08pm 07/11/11 Permalink
Hogfather
Cairns, Queensland
11156 posts
Its hard to imagine because we're not all parents.. but kids get out, kids do stupid s***, kids hurt themselves and kids hurt others.. Parenting is more about preparing them for that s*** and hoping they'll make the right decisions then anything else...

This is true. I can't keep an 18 month old boy feet away from me from hurting himself because he thinks he can climb s***.

How you're supposed to control teenagers 100% scares the s*** out of me! If they do something really stupid (and we ALL did really stupid things, or were very boring teenagers) and cost someone a lot of money you have no doubt that righteous people assuming its because you're a criminally bad parent.
06:11pm 07/11/11 Permalink
copuis
Brisbane, Queensland
1510 posts
hoggy, I guess it comes down to ground rules, and spending the time with the kids,

if your patience is greater than there impatience you're a winner,

but were would you draw the line at responsibly as a parent, if your little tacker climbs the flyscreen while your not looking, is it the kids fault, the flyscreen's fault, or your fault??,

and from that life lesson, how he learns that climbing s*** while dad's not looking can hurt, (or if your oh the mindset, a quick sharp smack on the bum or something, better the thought of being hurt, than a real injury)

now, regardless of what sort of IQ level (and having a low IQ doesn't mean you are "retarded", just that there is some mental retardation, but the ability to learn is still there, and lesson can still be given, and learnt)

all kids get up to s***, thats the way life is, however as a parent you job (apart from care, roof, food) is to teach them, fire fascination is normal, but again, easy to teach people about it, (most fire stations will help, and there is even a special house at petrie set up to help kids understand the dangers etc, and fight that fascination)

we are also talking about not one fire lit, but suspected that there were a fire, and inbetween the areas of yea and seymour (over 15 kms apart)

to cover that distance, she was having one mega s***, or there is something else amiss,
07:14pm 07/11/11 Permalink
Shambler22
Brisbane, Queensland
112 posts
Retard is defined as someone with an IQ of below 70. So, someone who is incredibly dumb. Why is it offensive to use a warm hearted colloquial term to compare someone, or yourself, to a person who is incredibly dumb.

Example "F*** I'm retarded. I forgot to lodge my tax return and got fined.'

For example, i use the term 'n****' towards someone who is engaged in criminal activity. It really has nothing to do with race.. it's got to do with the fact african americans are responsible for more crime in the U.S and in the past were referred to as n****s. Clearly, it's not offensive. It's a warm hearted, jovial term.

Example "Some white n****s broke into my house and stole my T.V. Damn N****s."

Both are terms which often get taken out of context. The same thing goes with 'homo.' Homosexuals love each other, so the term itself is a loving term.

Example : "OMG, homo. Can you not get the chat working in BF3!! S***.. some homo just pumped me!!!"

It's all in context. America is just hypersensitive to those words. They're idiots. I think in Australia, we are able to use those words in a humorous, loving way and not be offended by it.

So what if some people find it offensive. I find things offensive in my life and don't expect the whole world to change around me. It smacks of selfishness.

It was insufficient evidence wasn't it? A retard with a match is not enough to secure conviction. Plus no witnesses etc.. The press often plays up the wrong reason why the legal system came to it's conclusion. In this case, cos they were retards. Not the case... it was lack of evidence.. the whole innocent until PROVEN guilty thing.
07:15pm 07/11/11 Permalink
copuis
Brisbane, Queensland
1511 posts
mental retardation,

there are many uses of the word "retard" in medical circles

also n**** comes from nerco, or negro, loosly from the french word for black

homo means one

f***** is a bunch of sticks

you lack the knowledge of the history of words to make the above statements
07:19pm 07/11/11 Permalink
Dazhel
Gold Coast, Queensland
4119 posts
Clearly, it's not offensive. It's a warm hearted, jovial term.


It's cool, just like Randal Graves, Shambler's just takin' the word back.
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08:18pm 07/11/11 Permalink
Reverend Evil™
Wynnum, Queensland
19349 posts
What was the previous term for retards?

Morons i think?
01:24am 08/11/11 Permalink
spoon
Brisbane, Queensland
400 posts
For example, i use the term 'n****' towards someone who is engaged in criminal activity. It really has nothing to do with race.. it's got to do with the fact african americans are responsible for more crime in the U.S and in the past were referred to as n****s. Clearly, it's not offensive. It's a warm hearted, jovial term.


lmao dat trollll
01:53am 08/11/11 Permalink
Reverend Evil™
Wynnum, Queensland
19351 posts
As usual, Louis CK has an opinion....and he's spot on!

03:20am 08/11/11 Permalink
Agamemnon
Brisbane, Queensland
938 posts
Clearly this is an argument for eugenics
04:55pm 08/11/11 Permalink
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